The
Most Popular Mistakes about Love--& How Not to Make Them!
by Nancy
Huntting, from Seminar of November 30, 2000, at
the Aesthetic
Realism Foundation, 141 Greene St., NYC 10012
Part
2
Mistake
#2: Thinking Love and Justice Are Two Different Worlds
I see the recent film Erin
Brockovich
as important in showing that women want very much to be a force for
justice
to people. It also comments on something only Aesthetic Realism makes
clear:
the awful mistake of making love a separate world where we are soothed
and made important and don't need to be fair to a damn thing.
The film is based on the life of
an actual woman
named Erin Brockovich and her fight against a horrendous injustice,
causing
agonizing illness and death to hundreds of families in California: the
continual dumping since at least 1965 by Pacific Gas & Electric --
the world's largest utility company -- of an extremely toxic, cancer
causing
chemical, hexavalent chromium, knowingly allowing it to seep into the
water
supply. People everywhere, and Ms. Brockovich herself, need to know
what
I learned from Aesthetic Realism: what she is fighting is the contempt
for human beings inherent in private ownership for profit; and it is
the
same contempt that has a woman feel she owns a man and can do with him
whatever seems in behalf of her own comfort.
We like Erin Brockovich, played
by Julia Roberts,
because she's a critic, and she's also trying to be kind, has feeling
for
people. She has contempt also, and is scornful and angry in a way that
hurts her and others. Meanwhile, there's a desire to show herself in a
way I respect -- she’s not smooth! Julia Roberts in this role has an
affecting
relation of fierceness and tenderness, pride and vulnerability,
sureness
and unsureness.
As the movie begins, Ms.
Brockovich is a single
mother of three children who, after two failed marriages, finds herself
without money or a job. She's interviewing for work, and we see what
people
are going through all over the country; the uncertainty, desperation,
worries
about money to feed their family. Erin tells the interviewer she wanted
to study medicine but got married early and had a child; in her first
job
with a engineering company she came to love geology, and reading maps!
We see a woman with mind, possibilities, and also one who has made
mistakes
in love.
A Raging
Question for Women
The film is critical of snobbish
ways people
sum up others. However, about sex and a woman's body, it is mixed up.
Tall,
shapely Erin wears tight mini-skirts and low-cut tops, and people
take her to be neither responsible nor intelligent. And though she
herself
acts like she's just being herself and others are at fault, her
seductive
wardrobe puts the spotlight on her body in a way that weakens the
movie.
This is a raging question for
women now. The
crucial thing as a woman dresses herself, I learned, is our motive: Do
we want men to be stronger or weaker? Do we want to bring out their
kindness
and intelligence -- or their unkindness and stupidity, so we can be
contemptuously
supreme? If it is the second, we go against our own hopes -- we divide
our minds and bodies, as Erin is doing -- and it's a mistake.
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